Ostentatious
Posted by Ingrid on 25 June 2007
Ostentatious: intended to attract notice and impress others.
While surfing the web I came across a Pastor (who I don’t know and won’t name) who had pictures of his yacht posted on his website. Now you all know I am all for bragging on God. I do it often. I am just somewhat leery of people who decide to point out their wealth as a show of how good God has been. Let me explain why.
As a Pastor you are set as the head of God’s sheep to humbly show them Christ and to teach them God’s word. God has a purpose for each of us, and that purpose varies. While there is absolutely nothing wrong with being successful how do you think the people who are less fortunate view salvation with your flaunt of wealth.
In recent years there has been a faulty emphasis placed on “prosperity” over righteousness. God as a means and way to get “stuff” and “things”. If your worship “correctly” (whatever that means) God will bless you over and above that which you will be able to imagine. Hmmmm… Have we become so jaded that blessing is now synonymous with tangible items?
As a Pastor you are called to a higher standard which says that stuff and things is not the litmus test which measures “blessed and highly favored”. I am sorry but stuff and things is only a litmus test of two things; either how hard you work and how driven you are secularly or how crooked you are and how much your are willing to cheat and steal.
God’s favor and mercy allow things to swing in our favor when we are in his will. For example, there is a choice between you and another more qualified applicant but you get the job. That — I am willing to say is God’s hand working on your behalf. I agree that he sometimes works his hand to make room for us in places we would normally not have access to. It is now up to you what you do with that access. You can use it as a stepping stone and be faithful to the gift in which case the Lord may open other doors for you, but this is not a given.
Saying material wealth is a sign of holy living is a moronic statement. If that is the case then the argument could be made that anyone who has material wealth has received God’s favor. Now, though we are not to judge the salvation of others, but I am sure you can agree that not every rich person is saved. So what does it teach those people on the bottom of the ladder who struggle with day to day living? That God loves them less or that they are somehow unworthy of his favor because they can’t afford a yacht?
What about all the times God saved them from being without food by providing the proverbial “ram in the bush”. What about the day the bullet just missed their son — whom they had been praying would not get hurt while he was “hanging out”. What about the way their daughter graduated childless from high school with honors in spite of the high teen pregnancy rate in her school? All intangible shows of God’s favor. Yet, these very same messengers of God cannot see that a life saved and a body cherished are much more important displays of what God can do when given the opportunity. What is more precious than life? What has is more valuable than your child’s chastity?
Everyone aspires to live comfortably. I don’t know anyone who wakes up and says I want a life to be a constant struggle while I figure out how I’m going to survive day to day. That is nonsensical. Even those who choose to take a vow of poverty do not choose to live life struggling; they are just trusting God to supply their needs.
Yet, to put a price tag on God’s grace and favor while debasing his Divinity by saying his blessings are seen in a boat (house, car, money, etc…) rather than glorifying him in the miracle of your very existence is probably the biggest insult a Christian can give to God. It is a kin to telling the firefighter well you saved me from that inferno but now I need money…can you help a sista out? How about let’s be thankful for what really matters and place the emphasis where it belongs.
Like most Americans I believe you should “make your money”. I don’t have a problem with anyone working their hand and creating a comfortable existence for their family. I don’t even begrudge this particular preacher his yacht. I am just concerned at the message it sends when you stand before God’s people and flaunt that wealth. Church folks will call Heaven and Hell down on the rappers because they show our children the wrong standards in living. Yet, some of them will out bling most rappers any day of the week. So I am of the opinion if it is wrong for secular people to flaunt their wealth then isn’t doubly wrong for those of us called to a higher standard to flaunt?
God’s blessings and favor have never been limited to tangible. How can you minimize the power of the Creator of the universe into the smallness of providing you a big house? God guarantees certain things upon salvation. He guarantees that we will be provide our basic needs. So why would a Pastor preach through his actions that God’s favor comes in such elaborate displays of money. (God’s word on greed and His Promise)
Just a thought.








JustMeWriting said
GIRL!!! I want to say so much, I don’t even know where to start…lol, but I’ll start from Jeremiah 23:1
“Woe to the shepherds who destroy and scatter the sheep of My pasture!” says the Lord.
As you stated, Pastors are SUPPOSED to be annointed and appointed by the Lord, but we’ve got all these self-appointed, self-gloryfied, FALSE prophets/preachers heading up our churches and they’ve caused the Lord’s sheep to scatter with their greed and unwillingness to align themselves with the ways and words of the Bible.
The purpose of wealth within the House of the Lord is to feed His people…but too many pastors have taken that wealth to feed themselves while the people go hungry. He shouldn’t be called a shepard of the Lord, having a yacht while people within his community have no food or shelter. The Lord causes you to be blessed for you to be a blessing.
Lastly, Matthew 19:24
“And again I say to you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.” So, where do these wealthy preachers think they’ll end up…or do they care!?!
GC (God's Child) said
I believe in the judgement.
Let’s pray for them.
Rosemarie said
These types of Shepherds grieve the Lord whether SENT or WENT. They are hording God’s goods in their own barns. Simply stated…they are stealing.
As JMW said, many in their own house cannot pay for utilities, rent, or food and they’re off blessing themselves with the church tithes and offerings.
The Health and Wealth movement better take a backseat! I believe God wants us all to be blessed. However, to each man it is measured and a mystery on how it is appropriated.
We need to be blessed where we are! Praise Him for the goodness we’ve reaped and the benefits we have currently.
I have some questions for any Pastor whose wealthy lifestyle exceeds that of his congregation’s community. What do you tithe? I sure hope it’s 90% of your salary, because if God’s favor is all over you he’s given you other opportunities to create an income rather than using His money. What do the financial statements look like? Do the tithers know how much income and expenses are each year? How much is your salary and/or your housing allowance?
In cases like these, I hear the words…”It’s just a business.”
The Bible clearly holds ministries to higher standards.
“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence.” Matthew 23:25
“Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.” Colossians 3:5
Blu Jewel said
Ingrid: Like you, i am completely opposed to Pastors flaunting their wealth and stature without regard for those they’re supposed to be serving.
I know a Pastor who by many standards would be a good pastor save for his ego and arrogance. I attended his church for a short time and saw the ugly transformation that he went through. I was tempted to join that church and give up on the one I’ve attended for almost 15yrs now, but there was something in my that wouldn’t allow me to go through with it. I’m so happy I let the spirit rule and move me because (as I said), his ego and arrogance made me sick.
He praised a family for their $350k house and for overcoming some family issues, praised a young man who drove a distance to his church and was in the military, and things of that nature. Meanwhile, I live in a $350k house, served in the military, etc and never bragged about it or wanted it bragged about.
To make a long story short, I feel you on this subject and it’s one that frustrates me because all too often, I see more pastors looking out for self instead of their ministry.
So...Wise...Sista said
Preach!
This morning, the Pastor had on a ring that was louder than his sermon. I constantly find myself distracted by his designer suits and jewels. Mind you, I aint mad at that. He looks good. lol
Before chuch, a pastor was on BET saying that pastors SHOULD have private jets bec flying commercial is “public transportation.” (ummm, how many of their parishioners wait on the bus to get to 9:00 service every week?)
I wonder how many would be “called” if there was no such thing as tithes and offerings?
Mercy's Maid said
Amen and amen.
I have some (well, mostly one) close friend who subscribes to the prosperity gospel whole heartedly.
I don’t mind someone wanting to be blessed by God, but I don’t think that means that it’s OK to just sit back and not work and just wait for a bag of money to land on the door step.
And the funny thing is, I don’t think it’s viewed as greed. Somehow it’s pious to sit around and salivate over money and possessions that are acquired.
It sickens me.
DN Lee said
here, here